kuch saal baad....

पूछते है अपनी आँखों को  बंद कर खुदसे
किया ये  क्या तुमने, आप अपने संघ,

जो रंग सारे उड़ गए है,कटे हुए है पंख ?

कापती है आवाज़ ,क्या कहूंगी किसी से

 जहाँ पर ख्वाब बस्ते थे ,

वहाँ  अब राख फैली है 

एक दो दाग नहीं,

पूरी चूनर ही मैली है  

दिल टूटा तो था पर उस बात को बीते अरसा हुआ

लेकिन आज भी जीवन में सन्नाटा पसरा हुआ 

अजीब कश्मकश सी ,आज भी हैरान है ज़िन्दगी

खुदसे थक चुकी,सबसे परेशान है ये ज़िन्दगी 

ज़िन्दगी को खुलके जी पाना ,ये तक़दीर होती है 

कुछ लोगो की ज़िन्दगी की वीरान तस्वीर होती है 

 ....... 

नहीं जाना है लौटके उस वक़्त में पीछे

और न अपने आप को फिरसे गिराना है

मैं ज़िंदा हूँ, मेरी ज़िन्दगी को मुस्कुराना है

जो हो चुका  कल में ,वो मेरा गुज़रा ज़माना है  ॥ 


~ M.e.D 

JOMO Syndrome

The other day I read an article in a leading English daily about the Joy Of Missing Out (JOMO) and it made a lot of sense to me. The joy of being away from the sham and chaotic world of social networking which has now become a source of headaches, a source of depression for many. The joy of cutting yourself away from all the unnecessary clutter of information about people you do not have an iota of interest in. I often give up on my social networks just to spent time with the people who matter to me and with the silence of my surroundings and trust me ,it increases my self-confidence and my happiness quotient by many folds. You experience peace inside-out.

Talking to people about almost nothing, wasting hours on the internet liking pictures and posts . Probably wasting all the time you should spend calling friends , reading a book or just pampering yourself. What has social networking done to us. Fine, it has kept us connected but do you realize at what cost ? There is no private life left, people take pride in updating absolute non sense statuses and check-ins on FB as if I care where you are and what you are doing..

Blocking people you dislike,unfriending people after fights, stalking your exes...all this has made life so insane that we have forgotten all that is important. Talking about your love for your family on FB , talking about your patriotism on FB...what good does that do ? Please people, stop all this...value your time on earth and do something creative, fun and for your own betterment if not of the society...For heavens sake stop serving hatred, jealousy and depression in the name of sharing.....  People are so easily available to each other through these sites that the element of surprise on meeting after years has vanished in thin air... people pose in pictures just to post on these sites..and people forget to enjoy the moment because they are too busy clicking selfies............ stop all this...now before it is too late...now before you lose all of it.........save it while you can..

Switch off..tune out and Breatheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Take care

M.e.D

Ye kaha aa gaye hum

aate jaate,
jaakar aate
rukte tehrte,
tehr k phir chalte
kharachte kamate,
kamaake gawaate
rulate hasate,
aansu chupaate
jalaate bujhate,
bujhakar jalaate
satate satate,
rootte manate
banate mitate
mitake banate
ye rishte, ye naate
yu rasame nibhaate
yu uljhan suljhaate
yu jeena sikhate

khud hi ko khoke
kuch yaadein sajoke
ye kaha aa gaye hum
yunhi saath chalte-chalte..........................

~ M.e.D

Jaaye toh jaaye kaha ....

Sochti thi dosti har mushkil ka hal hai
Sochti thi dosti mein hi mera aaj,mera kal hai
Shayad iss dosti mein kuch kami rahi hai
Hoon aaj bhi yaha par dost nahi hai
थे  dost ye kaise jo kabhi haal na pooche
Har kisi ke yaha mijaaz थे  ooche

Facebook ki dosti hume bhaayi nahi
Whatsapp ke dosti raas aayi nahi
Jo apne थे sab paraye lagte hai
Jo paraye थे se apne hone ka dikhawa karte hai
Ye social networking dooriyan kam karne k liye thi na...
Phir dooriyan बढ़ kyu gayi jeevan mein ?
Sab online toh hai, par kisi ke paas kisi ke liye waqt nahi hai....

Kisi Dushman ki baddua kahu
Ya Dosti ka sila...
Log badh gaye, main tham si gayi hu
Waqt beh raha hai  main jam si gayi hoon
Na dost hai yaha pe, Na koi pyar hai
Meri har jeet mein chupi kahi meri hi haar hai

Ab samjha hai jaake maine zindagi ko kareeb se
Iske छल  ko......
Main akeli thi, akeli hu aur akeli rahungi
Ek bhram tha jo टूट  gaya
Ek accha waqt jo peeche छूट gaya
Thaga sa mehsoos kar rahi hu
Andar andar गल  rahi hu
Nahi ab mann nahi lagta yaha
Lekin sawaal toh wahi hai aaj bhi..
....... Jaaye toh jaaye kaha ?


~ M.e.D